Dave Grohl’s Image ‘Tarnished’ by Infidelity but He’ll Be Forgiven—Experts

PR experts have told Newsweek that while Dave Grohl’s infidelity announcement will tarnish his image momentarily, he will be fine in the long run if he plays his cards right.

The frontman of the rock band Foo Fighters released a statement on September 10 admitting he has fathered a child outside his marriage to Jordyn Blum, with whom he shares three daughters.

“I’ve recently become the father of a new baby daughter, born outside of my marriage,” he wrote on Instagram. “I plan to be a loving and supportive parent to her. I love my wife and my children, and I am doing everything I can to regain their trust and earn their forgiveness. We’re grateful for your consideration toward all the children involved, as we move forward together.”

Fans were floored by this news, especially since many have often referred to him as “the nicest man in rock.” Now Newsweek has spoken to five PR experts about how this news will impact Grohl’s reputation in the long run.

Newsweek emailed a spokesperson for Grohl for comment on Wednesday.

Zoe Mumba is a senior manager of PR and communications at Bitmovin, an Emmy award-winning video streaming company, with over eight years of experience in the industry. She explained that Grohl’s decades-long marriage has enhanced his public image by creating the perception of a family man. According to Mumba, the news that Grohl has been unfaithful to his wife and had a child with another woman will “undoubtedly tarnish his public image.”

“Unfortunately, Grohl is not the first rockstar to be unfaithful and nor will he be the last. Many will likely view this as par for the course, despite sympathizing with his family,” she told Newsweek.

“Additionally, while Grohl’s announcement was likely an attempt to get ahead of the news, the fact that he has stated he will be an involved parent with his new daughter will be viewed positively.”

Dr. Contrecia T. Tharpe, chief storyteller and strategist at FayeVaughn Creative, a marketing, branding, and communications agency, doesn’t disagree with Mumba. She said Grohl’s long-standing reputation as a “nice guy” has earned him substantial goodwill—and this might help to cushion the blow of this revelation.

“Over the years, Grohl has cultivated an image of authenticity, humility, and generosity, which are powerful assets in weathering personal controversies like this. His loyal fan base, as well as the broader public, are likely to view him with some level of understanding—particularly given his history of good deeds and positive public presence,” she explained.

“That said, public perception will largely depend on how he manages the narrative from this point forward. Transparency will be critical. If Grohl openly acknowledges the situation, takes accountability, and responds with sincerity, he has the opportunity to steer the conversation in a more positive direction. A direct, honest approach would reinforce the authenticity his brand is built upon, helping him retain trust with both his fans and the media.”

Tharpe said that if Grohl avoids or downplays the issue in the future, this could result in a more significant public relations challenge.

She continued: “In today’s media landscape, where scrutiny is constant and narratives can quickly spiral, any attempts to deflect responsibility may cause long-term damage to his brand. This could shift the conversation from one about a personal matter to a broader critique of his integrity, making it harder for him to reclaim his previous standing.

“Ultimately, the way Grohl responds will be the determining factor in whether this remains a contained personal issue or escalates into a larger crisis. If handled with the right balance of transparency and accountability, Grohl’s image as a beloved rock figure can likely endure, albeit with some adjustments to his public persona moving forward.”

Frank Tortorici, the VP of media relations and crisis communications at MarketingMaven.com, explained that there are often different rules for men and women in the entertainment industry when it comes to infidelity. Because of this, Tortorici doesn’t think this latest development will have any impact on Grohl’s career.

“Just as Jon Bon Jovi took little heat when saying he’s had hundreds of women despite being married for more than 30 years, Dave Grohl admitting he sired a child out of wedlock will have no impact on his career,” he said.

“The public views male rock stars under a rosy ‘boys will be boys’ lens while villainizing female rock stars for even one small infidelity. Unfortunately, the old double standard is alive and well in the rock music world.”

Ryan McCormick, a co-founder and media relations specialist at Goldman McCormick Public Relations, agreed with Tortorici. He told Newsweek that he doesn’t think this development will hurt Grohl’s career or reputation but some fans might not forgive him.

“Yes, some fans will forever turn away because they don’t wish to support individuals who don’t share their values (in this case infidelity). However, others will see Dave as just another human who’s not perfect and has faults,” he said.

“Dave has long cemented his place as a legendary musician and he’s revered in the minds of millions. His career will continue.”

Lauren Stralo, director of public relations at LevLane, a full-service advertising agency, said transparency and humility are essential in reputation management. She explained that Grohl sharing a statement on Instagram was a great first step.

While some fans may initially feel disappointed, Stralo said the fact that Grohl has taken control of the narrative early, been transparent about his mistakes and emphasized his commitment to his family will help him in the long run.

“In crisis communications and public relations, we know that the public values authenticity and people are often willing to forgive when someone owns their mistakes without deflecting or making excuses,” she told Newsweek.

“Authenticity and humility can’t be faked. If Grohl continues to communicate openly with his fanbase, the long-term impact on his career will likely be minimized. From a PR and crisis communications perspective, he’s done exactly what experts would recommend—he’s avoided making excuses, remained sincere, and got ahead of the story with honesty and accountability.”

Grohl has been married to Blum since 2003. They share three daughters: Violet, Harper and Ophelia. His previous marriage to Jennifer Youngblood ended in 1997 due to Grohl’s infidelity, as he admitted in an interview with The Guardian. In the same story, he referred to his wife and Violet, their only child at the time, as “anchors that keep me from completely disappearing.”