If your father in-law or mother in-law is sick, let their children look after them. Focus on your own parents

Nigerian feminist, Nkechi Bianze, has advised married women to put their own families and parents first over their in-laws. 

The mother of two gave the advice on Friday after a man advised men to take care of their parents and siblings more than their in-laws.

“As a married woman, focus on your family more than you focus on your in-laws,” she wrote.

If your father in-law or mother in-law is sick, let their children look after them. Focus on looking after your own parents.

Also, you need to stop doing unpaid housegirl duties for your in-laws.

You do NOT owe your in-laws any care obligations. What you owe them is to take care of their son.

Men ALWAYS put their families first before their in-laws.

Women should learn to UNAPOLOGETICALLY put their families first over their in-laws.